Tom King

Executive marriage, allow healing, intimacy in marriage, conscious loving, marriage conflicts, heali

My wife and I recently celebrated our 35th wedding anniversary. As I reflected on this I decided to share my list of the top ten things I have learned in 35 years, in no particular order. 1. We’ve had to grow-up together. We all bring our unfinish... Read >

Executive Marriage Coach – I Thought My Marriage Was OK

“I thought my marriage was OK". This was the lament of a young man who came in with his wife to see me for coaching. A couple of months ago his wife informed him that she has been unhappy in their marriage for about five years and now is thinking about l... Read >

Dynamic Marriage - The Perfect Valentines Day Gift

Are you at a loss about what to give your wife for Valentines Day? What can you give your man that will make a big impact on him? The answers lie in understanding what your spouse really wants and needs from you. Let me give you some ideas. We all... Read >

The Road of Recovery

The road of recovery is not the same as the path of despair. Many, perhaps most people fear allowing themselves to feel their darker feelings because they remember times of being overwhelmed or crushed by them. Consequently most of us find creative, el... Read >

Executive Marriage Coach – Love Tips for the Holidays

Love Tips for the Holidays Do you find yourself emotionally confused this time of year? You want to be closer to people you love, you want to experience peace and joy and yet it seems so stressful and hard. You think about those you miss and grieve f... Read >

Executive Marriage Coach – Something’s Got to Change

Many times couples get stuck in patterns that keep them from experiencing the quality of marriage or relationship they desire. I recently had a conversation with a couple who are stuck in a spot that feels lonely and unsatisfying. What they were unable ... Read >

Executive Marriage Coach – How to Fight for Your Marriage

It’s Time to Fight for Your Marriage “I don’t know if I even want to confront the loneliness in my marriage, if I have the energy or if I really care". Ruth has cooperated with a pattern of allowing her spouse to be in their marriage without being a p... Read >

Intimacy in Marriage – See Your Own Beauty

Intimacy is created through sharing all of yourself with one you love. There are many expressions of intimacy and we all have different levels of awareness and willingness to share who we are. Some, maybe most of us have lost sight of the light and the... Read >

Executive Marriage Coach Tip : Marriage Success - The Search for Fulfillment

We come into this world as a precious spirit abiding in a beautiful but fragile baby body. We have no tools to survive in this world so we are completely vulnerable and dependent on those who care for us. To the extent that we receive the care we need, ... Read >

Executive Marriage Coach – And a Man Shall Leave his Mother…

There are many developmental issues that influence your ability to be a healthy partner in your marriage. One issue that everyone has to work through is separating from one's family of origin. Separating is not about leaving your family behind, not cari... Read >

Executive Marriage Coach – Enjoying the Fruits of Love

A friend of mine was telling me about the wedding of his son and new daughter-in-law this weekend. He had several good observations. One was the joy and pride of seeing his son grown into a mature young man making a commitment to a lovely young woman.... Read >

Executive Marriage Coach – How to Stretch your Love Capacity

Why won't you meet my needs? A client recalled this lament from his wife, which in essence was the accusation: "you have the ability to meet my needs, you're not doing it, and furthermore you're not doing it on purpose". Upon further exploration it bec... Read >

Executive Marriage Coach Tip : Marriage Success - Love of Power or Power of Love?

Is your love of power undermining the power of your love? I heard a lecture this weekend by author Diana Butler Bass who is a scholar specializing in American religion and culture. She talked about how the Christian church has often been so caught up... Read >

Executive Marriage Coach – The Eyes of an Angel

I asked a couple that I have been coaching for a while to look deeply into the eyes of one another and tell me what they saw. The husband looked at his wife for a moment and said "I see the eyes of an angel". What is remarkable is this is a couple who h... Read >

Executive Marriage Coach – Do the Inner Work First

Be careful of things that promise easy and simply solutions to complex problems. The Law of Attraction is one such solution that is often misleading. If it's so easy, why are so many still stuck? One of my new clients told me how she uses dreams and ... Read >